If your elderly parent needs more help in their day-to-day lives, you might be considering inviting them to move in with you. There are many benefits to such an arrangement, especially if you’re a close-knit family. For instance, if your parents are relatively healthy, they can babysit or help around the house. However, this is still a serious decision that needs careful consideration. As an expert on caring transitions, we share with you a list of factors you should take into account if you’re considering this option.
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How much care they need – Elderly people may have specific needs depending on their health. You should be able to commit to their care, or at least ensure you can provide for it. They likely need companionship and some level of assistance. Be realistic about what you can and can’t do, as well as your other commitments, like a full-time job.
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How well you get along – All families have some conflict in one way or another, and not all children get along with their parents. If your relationship with your elderly parent is sometimes tense, consider how living under the same roof will impact your daily life. If you can resolve your differences early on, then so much the better. Your own children may want to have the opportunity to bond with a grandparent too. On the other hand, if you’re uncomfortable with having your parents at home, seeking out professional advice on elderly moving services may be the wiser course of action.
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Your home’s amenities – You may need to make adjustments to your home to make it more senior-friendly. If you don’t have a first-floor bedroom available for your loved one, there will need to be a means to access the upper stories without using the stairs, such as an automatic stair lift. The bathroom may need to be modified to accommodate grab bars, or perhaps even a walk-in tub. As a plus, if you are planning on aging in place at the same home, you’ll also be future-proofing your home with these additions.
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Your financial situation – Taking care of your parents will have some impact on your expenses, of course, but if you and your parents can work out an arrangement where they can contribute financially, this will help. You can also consider other alternatives like having your siblings pitch in, since you’ll likely be devoting a significant amount of your time and resources to your parents’ care.
Busy Buddies can help you with the transition process and can even help you declutter your home. To learn more about our services, call us today at (703) 828-1833, or fill out our contact form to schedule a free consultation. We serve McLean, VA, and nearby areas.
